Chauvinist attitudes stop women making progress
HANOI - The killing of a young man by a gang of jealous youths
has again shown that Vietnam's constitutional guarantee
of equality between the sexes is little more than rhetoric.
Doan Van Tham, 23, drowned after being beaten
unconscious by seven men in the village of Trai Nui,
50km northeast of Hanoi.
According to the People's Police newspaper, Tham had
gone to Trai Nui from his own village at the request of
his cousin, Hoang Van Thang, who wanted to propose
to a woman in Trai Nui.
But as is the case in many parts of Vietnam, the males of
Trai Nui see women as chattels. They ambushed the
interlopers and justified their actions as "protecting Trai
Nui's women".
Such attitudes are not unusual, with reports often
detailing locals beating outside suitors, particularly in the
country's conservative north. The possessive attitude of
Vietnamese men is not much better in the cities.
Women who marry foreigners are often vilified by
strangers in the street and are forced to quit if they work
for the Government.
Even in Vietnamese marriages, capable and ambitious
young woman find themselves shackled by chauvinistic
attitudes.
"Some women are stuck in an impasse when they are
longing for advancement in society and at the same time
functioning as standard mothers and wives," said Tran
Thi Kim Xuyen, of the University of Social Sciences.
According to Ms Xuyen, so strong are the prevailing
attitudes - which among other things define a single
woman over 30 as aberrant - that many women who
qualify for post-graduate studies choose not to enrol.
Ha Thi Khiet, of the Women's Union, hopes to see real
gender equality by 2010 to stop the female "brain
drain".
She recognises the difficulty but says it is essential for
more prosperity.
"It's universally proven that investing in women means
investing in future generations and the socio-economic
development of a country," she said.
By Huw Watkin - The South China Morning Post - March 25, 2000.
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